Emotions of a Home

by

Janice Girgenti


The home is a place where we hang our hat and take respite from the all too often fast paced reality of life. It is a sacred space that is meant to support, inspire and nurture the individuals that reside there. It is also an environment that permits personal journeys to begin and allows a rest stop along the path through life.

The flow of a home's energy, or chi, will affect the emotional well being of the residents. This in turn affects how an individual moves through his daily activities whether energetically, lackadaisically, focused, etc. When there is conflict among the members of the household, or within the individuals themselves, we will often times find an imbalance in the environment that either created the discord or at the very least perpetuates it. Feng Shui observations pinpoint the areas of blocked energy flow that are stagnant and creating distress in the inhabitants. This causes remarkable subconscious changes and imbalances that can be noted in altered behavior, personality and even manifest in physical dis-ease.

Creating harmony and balance in one's home will ensure the emotional well being of those that live in the space. It is a vital element in choosing a home, as well as furniture placement, wall color, window treatments, accessories, textile choices, flooring and more. It also becomes quite relevant when building a home as the number of doors and windows and their placement are known to have an impact on the inhabitants. A firm feng shui belief is that the ratio of doors to windows will have great influence on the control issues that may present themselves between parents and children.

Most people do not become aware of feng shui and the subtle energy of the art until there is a perceived change in the mental, spiritual or physical well being of a home dweller. Feng Shui practice permits us to look at a space and make adjustments prior to issues appearing. Adjustments can also be made to alter the space as changes in family, furnishings and other facets of life shift. It is a must to secure balance in the space over the course of time.

Traditional feng shui cures add a lot of dimension to the energy of the space. Wind chimes, crystals, flutes, water features, plants and other cures are strategically placed to encourage positive energy flow throughout the home. For example, a home may be in the path of a negative flow of energy like a busy roadway, nasty neighbor or high tension wires. Without the use of cures, these effects come wafting into the house each time the door is opened. Wind chimes are often used to shift negative energy that may enter a home to make it less stressful. Water is traditionally used to motivate encouraging energy in a space that might require stimulation. It is used to stimulate the career and money aspects of a person's life.

Slow, stagnant energy is not the only culprit for emotional distress in a space. Occasionally energy will move too fast through a room causing irritations to those in its path. The arrangement of furniture, accessories and cures can easily remedy the situation and create a more settled flow of energy throughout the environment. This will decrease the added tension of fast moving chi.

Lastly, it is highly recommended that one space be designated for complete solitude. This sacred altar may be a tabletop or a whole room that anyone can stop by and be reminded that a peaceful existence is the key. It may be a place to go to during upsetting moments, to reclaim personal balance, to read or spend some time in prayer or meditation.

All in all a trained feng shui eye can detect these subtle energy flows and make suggested adjustments to bring the peace and harmony back into your home. Energy and its flow has a subconscious yet direct impact on inhabitants of a space. Feng Shui will not only make an impact on the beauty of the space and how it "feels," but will ensure quality surroundings creating a happy,
healthy environment for you and your loved ones.

 

Janice Girgenti is the owner of Feng Shui Studios (www.fengshuistudios.com), a professionally certified Feng Shui consultant, educator and decorator. Professionally, she has served as board member and is a trained instructor for Shambhalla Feng Shui Institute.

 

Conscious Design Magazine -Mar07: EmotionsofaHome
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