Dear Conscious Design

I have heard that you can attract romance into your life by using feng shui?
Where do I start?
JN, Florida

Dear JN

Yes, it does seem unusual for someone to suggest that important changes can happen simply by placing an object in a
room or shifting furniture.

We are learning that everything is truly connected. Our homes tell our stories, past - present- and future.
When we want to attract something new into our lives or to shift negative patterns, we need to make changes.
Remember the saying: "Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, and expecting different results."

Let's get started:

I love the process of working from the Outside -In, making positive changes that will generate powerful results.

If you have been struggling with attracting romance, there are some basic strategies that you can use:

Check your home for stagnant and cluttered areas. Removing clutter is extremely powerful, and can be an emotional process.
Pay attention to the areas in the home that accumulate the most clutter and blockages.

Repair or remove anything that is broken, chipped, not working, and not used. This type of energy is very negative, and
keeping everything in working order keeps the "chi" flowing smoothly.

Do a memory check ! Are there lots of remnants from a previous spouse or partner? Remove them quickly! Attracting in new partner energy means having to release the old. Stuffing memories under the bed and in the closet are not satisfactory.

Begin to work with the power of the number 2 - shop for "pairs". Many single people have an overabundance of single items.
Enjoy the beauty and energy of a matching pair of candlesticks, lamps, and decorative pieces.

Purchase artwork that represents love to you - and pay attention to what attracts you. Avoid choosing artwork that is dark or troublesome, rescue scenes or empty beaches. Bring in artwork that lifts and inspires you.

Create a beautiful bedroom that honors you and nurtures you, and remember to create a space for your new mate.

Start with these powerful basics. Know who you are and what you want in your life. Create your reality.

Good Luck !
Renae