ENHANCE YOUR RELATIONSHIPS, LOVE & MARRIAGE (excerpts from Feng Shui for the Health of It book) By Jen Leong, MA, HHP NC

 The close relationships we form with others are a reflection of who we truly are. Being open to communication and intimacy can deepen the bond we have with significant people in our lives. Consider how well you attract healthy, loving relationships.

Checklist For When You Want To Enhance

Relationships, Love & Marriage

Do you want to:

Do you feel that:

In Feng Shui, Relationships, Love & Marriage is located in the back right 1/3 corner of your home (or Compass Direction: SW) where you can enhance loving relationships. Receptivity, the quality associated with this gua, is important in communication with one another for a loving relationship. Unconditional love, support, flexibility, adaptability, and devotion are other qualities associated with this area. All are important for happy, healthy and loving relationships. The element related to Relationships, Love & Marriage is Earth. The Earth energy in this gua is that of Mother Earth, having the qualities of receptivity and nurturing. When one partner is receptive to the feelings and needs of the other, there is a nurturing environment. The pink color associated with this gua also brings in the Fire element, which can add some warmth and passion to a relationship or help to start one.

The primary chakra of this gua is the Heart Chakra, located over the center of your chest. It is associated with the color green. Consider: Do you have feelings of unconditional love and support for each other for a happy, healthy relationship?

The supporting chakra is the Sacral Chakra, located between the base of the spine and the navel. It is associated with the color orange. Consider: This is where the emotion of feelings and the need for relationships are associated.

If you would like to enhance the Relationships, Love & Marriage area of your home, implement these 4 steps from the book, FENG SHUI FOR THE HEALTH OF IT, Tap into the Secrets for a Richer Life, from Head to Toe, Health to Wealth.

1.       Feng Shui for Relationships, Love & Marriage

You can decorate with or use any combination of the following representations to

enhance Relationships, Love & Marriage:

2. TLC Process™ to Allow Love into Your Life

The TLC Process™(Transformational Life Changing Process), a proprietary system developed by Jen Leong, promotes healing on the mental/emotional/spiritual levels. This method allows you to remove self-sabotage or "emotional blocks" using deprogramming or clearing statements, then reprogramming with positive affirmations to better align yourself with your goals. Use the chart and workspace below as idea starters for your personalized TLC Process.

Deprogramming Your Negative Belief(s):

"I deeply accept and love myself even though_______________________________

___________________________________________________________."

Reprogramming Your Positive Belief(s)/Affirmation(s):

"I totally and completely____________________________________________

________________________________________________ on all levels now."

3.       Aromatherapy to Enhance Romance into Your Life

Aromatherapy, the use of scent from essential oils for therapeutic purposes, provides biochemical healing within the mind and body. Essential oils can enhance a specific area in your home, health or life by helping you create new positive thought patterns.

Use a blend of any of the following essential oils with the intention of creating a healthy, loving and joyful relationship and deeper romance with your partner.

Jasmine, Lavender, Orange, Pine, Rose, Sandalwood, Ylang ylang

For example, Jasmine and Ylang ylang acts an aphrodisiac, while Rose enhances feelings of love & compassion.

4.   Crystal Therapy to Attract Love into Your Life

Crystals or gemstones provide the physical anchor that facilitates life-changing success and well-being. By choosing the right crystals, you can focus and amplify positive energy needed

for well-being and to achieve your goals. Select one of the following crystals that resonate with you and personalize it with your affirmation. Then place the crystal over your written affirmation somewhere in this gua.

Pink Tourmaline, Rhodocrosite, Rhodonite, Rose Quartz, Aventurine, Malachite

For example, Pink Tourmaline or Rose Quartz enhances the ability to give and receive love and compassion while Aventurine aids in emotional stability and Malachite represents loyalty in love, friendships and partnerships.

Here's an example how one person put the above program together after getting a Feng Shui consultation.

Finding Mr. Right

Elizabeth, a single mother with a pre-teen daughter, wanted to build a healthy intimate relationship with the right man. She had been dating for the last ten years, including two relationships that did not show much promise of a long-term future. About two years ago, Elizabeth decided that she would only date the "Right Guy" who would meet her most important qualifications - he had to love her daughter and accept and support her

full and exciting life. However, since reaching that decision, she had not attracted one man in her life. No dates, no introductions, not even phone numbers!

Implementing the TLC Process PLUS

* Elizabeth used the TLC Process with this affirmation:

"I attract and have an intimate, healthy relationship with my dynamic life partner now, who has the qualities I want on all levels now."

*Elizabeth applied a blend of essential oils (see page 144) to the Relationships, Love & Marriage area

of her home with a room spray and a body oil to her Heart and Sacral Chakras with the intention of meeting "Mr. Right."

* She personalized and placed two rose quartz crystal hearts in the Relationships, Love & Marriage area of her home.

The Results

Within two days of implementing the program, Elizabeth was approached by a man who possessed all the qualities she wanted. They had met casually through mutual friends about a year prior. He had kept up

on her, amazed and impressed with her adventures. Once he took the first step, they made a romantic connection. They have since formed a dynamic, passionate relationship that also includes business partnerships, travel and loving family support.

For more information on how other essential oils and crystals enhance Relationships, Love & Marriage, as well as all the other aspects of your life such as Career, Wealth & Prosperity, Family & Health and more, see Feng Shui for the Health of It book, an All-In-One reference guide, available online at www.YourWellnessByDesign.com

As a companion to this book, Wellness by Design is pleased to introduce Jewel Essence™, a unique line of Feng Shui Aromatherapy, developed by Jen Leong, specially formulated with 100% pure essential oils that have been infused with the appropriate crystals and healing chakra sounds to enhance each of the nine areas in your life according to the Feng Shui Bagua Map, including Relationships, Love & Marriage, Career, Wealth & Prosperity and more. 

FENG for the HEALTH of It,

Tap into the Secrets for a Richer Life from Head to Toe, Health to Wealth

In this new book, author Jen Leong, reveals the secrets for a richer life with easy, practical methods to enhance your well-being on four key levels. 

Tapping into her combined 18-years plus of experience, knowledge and training in Holistic Health and Feng Shui, Jen has integrated the ancient wisdom of Feng Shui, aromatherapy, crystals and emotional clearing in this all-in-one easy to use reference guide. Discover how you can apply these tools to enhance your life and well-being.  

Includes over 30 exclusive charts, graphics & worksheets, plus plenty of real-life success stories!

Jen Leong, MA, HHP NC, brings together over 18 years of combined professional, practical knowledge and expertise in the world of Feng Shui and Holistic Health in this comprehensive, easy to use reference guide for well-being. Her methods are all natural & easy to use!